The Second Nine Houses of the Bagua: Earth (Relationship)

Earth is the element of receptivity, openness and yielding. Energy here is manifested in the physical world in partnership or, more generally, the Relationship area, so it is often called the marriage corner. If this area is missing in a house, it could be the reason why the occupant is single; couples living there are likely to have difficulties.

To maintain harmony and balance in relationships it is important to check out every relationship corner of the home to see whether negative space exists. The most important is the one in the bedroom since this is where you are most intimate in your relationship with yourselve and with a partner. If the Relationships area is missing, you need to pay special attention to make adjustments. Moreover, as this house of the bagua carries the most feminine energy, a lack of this house can mean that female occupants will be less fortunate and happy. Make sure that this corner is not collecting clutter or housing on overflowing basket of dirty laundry.

Check out the imaginery of your pictures: are there solitary figures or couples having fun? Even a picture of two flowers reinforces the message of duality. Similarly, make the most of your relationships by showing mementoes of your life together. You need to energize the area, with uplighting, plants, a crystal hanging in the window, a landscape painting with depth, or a mirror - whatever feels appropriate.

The nature of the element of Earth is one of openness and invitation. It is strengthened by flowing lines and soft items. Bring nature into your environment with flowers, plants, candles and water. Cushions and pillows on the bed are ideal reinforcements. The colour yellow holds the gathering nature of earth and can be used in the decor. Avoid furniture and decor that have a hard, unyielding quality. See where you can create welcoming corners that invite closeness and support togetherness - a window seat or a soft-covered pair of low, comfortable chairs facing each other.